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Sejal Bajargan

she/her Senior Counselling Psychologist
Currently accepting new clients
Languages: English, Hindi
ADHD Addiction Addiction and substance abuse Anger management Anxiety Body image Boundary setting Communication and Interpersonal Skills Depression Eating disorder Grief LGBTQIA+ concerns Loneliness Low motivation Low self esteem Mood related concerns Obsessive-compulsion Disorder Psychosomatic concerns Relationship concerns Sexual Concerns Sleep management Stress management Trauma Trauma and complex trauma
MY PHILOSOPHY OR BELIEF ABOUT THERAPY Therapy, to me, is a compassionate space for healing and self-discovery. I believe in a trauma-informed, collaborative approach that empowers clients to reconnect with themselves, understand their patterns, and build resilience. Healing …

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TRAUMA : BIG TRAUMA AND SMALL TRAUMA
TRAUMA : BIG TRAUMA AND SMALL TRAUMA
05 Dec 2025

What Is Trauma? Trauma occurs when an individual experiences an event that is deeply distressing or disturbing, to the point where it challenges their capacity to manage and …

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Boundaries in Relationships: Love Without Losing Yourself
Boundaries in Relationships: Love Without Losing Yourself
17 Sep 2025

For a long time, I thought love meant closeness — answering every call, being endlessly available, giving without pause. I believed that being a “good” partner or friend …

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What Somatic Therapy Taught Me About Listening to the Body
What Somatic Therapy Taught Me About Listening to the Body
14 Aug 2025

When I first began exploring somatic therapy, I thought I understood the body’s role in healing — after all, we all know stress shows up as headaches, tension, …

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Why Safety Matters More Than Coping Skills in Trauma Recovery
Why Safety Matters More Than Coping Skills in Trauma Recovery
24 Jul 2025

When we think about healing from trauma, many of us instinctively look for coping tools — breathing techniques, grounding exercises, journaling prompts, mindfulness apps. These skills are valuable …

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THE WINDOW OF TOLERANCE: A GENTLE GUIDE TO UNDERSTANDING YOUR REACTIONS
THE WINDOW OF TOLERANCE: A GENTLE GUIDE TO UNDERSTANDING YOUR REACTIONS
10 May 2025

Have you ever felt like your reactions were too much — too angry, too numb, too anxious — even when a part of you knew it wasn't logical? …

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COMING OUT ISN’T A ONE-TIME THING: A Therapist’s Perspective
COMING OUT ISN’T A ONE-TIME THING: A Therapist’s Perspective
10 Apr 2025

When we talk about coming out, we often picture it as a defining moment — a brave declaration, a door opening into a new, freer life. And while …

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UNDERSTANDING COMPLEX TRAUMA: THE WOUNDS THAT LINGER
UNDERSTANDING COMPLEX TRAUMA: THE WOUNDS THAT LINGER
20 Mar 2025

What Is Complex Trauma? Trauma is often misunderstood as a singular event - an accident, an assault, a disaster. But for many, trauma is not a moment in …

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